Ok,
I think I've decided to go with ARP bolts and a stock 7m composite gasket. It's the redesigned one with the little copper ring around the bore and what not, and from what I've read on supraforums, it does very well even at high boost, so long as you aren't detonating.
I still can't sort fact from fiction here, and I'm sure it isn't quite as straightforward as I'm trying to make it. But it makes sense to me that if I can't find a shop to give my head a really smooth mirror finish and yank my block over to a shop to get it decked I ought to stick with a composite gasket. Depending on how warped the head and block are, I will see whether to machine them or not-- I've heard that it is really stupid to machine the head and not the block, because they tend to warp in the same pattern. Unless the block's pretty straight and the head's reaallly warped, I think I'm just going to make sure the surfaces are relaly clean.
I appreciate all your guys' advice-- if you think I'm really making a mistake, let me know.
My question now is what other seals/gaskets do I need if I'm doing the head gasket? Should I get a complete head gasket kit for the 5m ($130), and add on the 7m's head gasket for another $45? Or can I get by spending less?
Thanks again guys,
Shiva